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How to Overcome Depression without Medication: Hooray for Hypericum

Jonathan Robinson, Finding Happiness Posted on June 26, 2013 by Jonathan RobinsonJanuary 16, 2023

sadMany people suffer from symptoms of minor depression sometime in their life.  Persistent sadness, moodiness, lethargy, tiredness, or suicidal thoughts can all be signs that you’re in the grips of depression.  What can you do?  Historically, the recommended treatment has been to take drugs such as Prozac or Zoloft—sometimes coupled with therapy.  Yet, these medications present a problem for many people.  First of all, getting a prescription and buying these medications can cost hundreds of dollars.   Secondly, many people find that anti-depressant medications don’t work at all or they can cause unpleasant side effects.  Fortunately, some people can overcome depression naturally. An inexpensive and safe alternative to anti-depressant medications has recently become popular; it’s called Hypericum—but it’s better known as St. John’s Wort.

How to Overcome Depression Without Medication.

St. John’s Wort is derived from a yellow-flowered plant that has been ingested around the world for some 2,000 years.  In 1994, the venerable Journal of Geriatric Psychiatry and Neurology devoted an entire issue to Hypericum.  One study done with 3,250 patients suffering from mild and moderate depression found that 80 percent of them felt better, or completely free of symptoms, after four weeks.   In Germany St. John’s Wort is the leading treatment for depression and is prescribed 25 times more frequently than Prozac.  Best of all, St. John’s Wort can be picked up at your local health food store without a prescription, and costs a lot less than any anti-depressant on the market.

Although more research needs to be done on Hypericum/St. John’s Wort, by all accounts it is a great way for overcoming depression without traditional medications.  Approximately 2.4% of those trying the herb experience side effects—ranging from restlessness to mild allergic reactions.  The percentage of people who report side effects from Prozac or Zoloft is markedly higher.  For example, approximately 20% of people who take Prozac experience headache, digestive difficulties and/or insomnia.   While Hypericum may make some people sensitive to the sun, the absence of serious side effects is one of its biggest selling points.

If you suffer from mild or moderate depression from time to time

consider trying STJohnsHypericum as a way to overcome depression naturally.   The recommended dosage is 300 milligrams of Hypericum extract, containing 0.3 percent of the active ingredient Hypericum, three times a day.  It takes between one and four weeks for the herb to start working.  Since it takes awhile for this medicine to have an effect, avoid trying it in response to momentary sadness or lethargy.  Yet, if you feel depressed for several weeks, there is little to risk and potentially a lot to gain from trying St. John’s Wort.

Due to the fact that I’m a therapist and not a psychiatrist, I’m not able to prescribe medication.  Frequently, clients would come to my office feeling depressed, but they lacked the funds to see a psychiatrist.  In addition, some clients simply refused to take drugs such as Prozac because they didn’t like the side effects or how it made them feel.   When I heard about Hypericum, I began suggesting it to clients I thought could benefit from its use.  In almost every case, glowing reports came back to me.  Many of the clients who had previously taken anti-depressants reported they liked Hypericum better.  Several of my clients said they experienced fewer side effects and/or found it to feel “more natural” than the previous medications they had tried.

If you try Hypericum or other anti-depressant remedies,

it’s important not to use them to avoid looking at important issues in your life.  Depression can often be a sign that certain aspects of your life are not working.  A good therapist or a good book that deals with a therapeutic approach to depression can be an important part of your recovery; the book Feeling Good by Dr. David Burns is a good place to start.   Although psychotherapy can be expensive, it can beat the cost of spending the rest of your life running from yourself.  If you decide to try therapy as part of your treatment, ask friends if they know of anyone they can recommend.  Another option is to call several therapists and talk to each of them on the phone to see which one feels right for you.

161718759Hypericum is not a cure-all for depression and sadness.  Yet, for many people it can be an enormous help.  If, after using Hypericum for four to six weeks, you don’t notice any improvement, consider seeing a psychiatrist for his or her recommendation.  If you keep trying new medications and/or forms of therapy, you’ll eventually find something that helps.  Don’t give up hope.  Even severely depressed people have been known to bounce back to a feeling of contentment after finding a treatment that was right for them.  Good luck on your search

Posted in Depression, Mood | Tagged depression, fullest, inspire, Jonathan Robinson, overcome severe depression, positive psychology

Everything You Know about Happiness Is Wrong

Jonathan Robinson, Finding Happiness Posted on May 16, 2013 by Jonathan RobinsonJanuary 16, 2023

160619033You are living in a dangerous cult.  I mean it.  Of course, like most people in cults, you don’t think it’s dangerous—or that it’s even a cult.  This “cult” that you (and I) are living in is the hyper capitalist economic system of modern day life.

In this cult or cult-ure we’re part of, we’re hypnotized to believe certain things that are not really true.  For example, we’re conditioned to believe that if only we had more money, or the right relationship or less wrinkles—THEN we’d be a lot happier.  Studies prove that these ideas aren’t actually true, but we eventually start to believe them because we’re constantly bombarded with such messages.

Here’s a question that can determine if you’ve truly been indoctrinated into the capitalist cult.  Which of these two options do you think would make you happier?  Option one:  winning over a million dollars in the lottery.  Option two: becoming paralyzed from the waist down.  Which do you think would lead you to being happier after a year of time has passed?

If you think the obvious answer is winning the lottery, you’re wrong.  It means you’ve bought our cult’s basic dogma—that what happens to you determines your level of happiness.  Although such a notion is widespread and unquestioned in Western culture, scientific research does not bear this idea out.  People who are paralyzed and people who win the lottery are equally happy after a year of time has passed.

In the search for hypnotizedhappiness that we are all on, you can’t assume anything that you’ve heard.  Unfortunately, our culture is constantly pushing its ideas about finding the “good life” onto us, and that brainwashing does not necessarily have anything to do with being happy. After all, does Donald Trump look joyous to you? In the last twenty years, the average GDP of Chinese citizens has gone up 400%, and yet their average level of happiness has actually gone down.

In our culture, we’ve also been led to believe that having a lot of choice is a good thing.  There are over 24,000 items to choose from just in your local supermarket.  With the Internet, our range of choices has become virtually infinite.  The problem is we’ve been led to assume that the more choices we have, the richer and more satisfying our lives will become.  Yet, numerous studies show that our gluttony of choice mostly just adds to our level of stress–and makes us less contended with our lives.

In fact, contrary to cult doctrine, having a lot of money, good health, or a job you enjoy doesn’t truly lead to happiness.  Rather, research shows that we have it completely backwards.  Numerous studies indicate that it is being a happy person that leads to having more money, good health and a job you enjoy.  Highly fulfilled people end up making over $750,000 more during their lifetime than people who are unhappy.  Highly contented people also live an average of 8 years longer than the rest of us, and have half the level of divorce.

If the specifics of our lives (money, health, job, choice) don’t determine our level of happiness, what does?   Researchers have identified several factors.  First, part of our happiness is determined by our genetics.  Unfortunately, there’s nothing we can do about that.  Yet, much of our level of well-being is due to our attitude, our focus on relationships, and certain beliefs and behaviors that happy people tend to have.  Fortunately, many of these attitudes and behaviors can be easily learned.

166624595Here’s just one example.  Highly contented people tend to schedule time each week for activities they truly enjoy.  On the other hand, unhappy people tend to make excuses as to why they don’t have time for what they really like to do.  Here’s another example.  Happy people make being with friends and enjoying life a central priority in their life, whereas less contented folks make things like making money their main priority.

Here’s the problem.  How do you become a happy person while living in a cult (culture) that does not value what really leads to happiness?   It’s hard.   It requires going against the grain of what the people around you are doing.  It means you need to ignore the 500 or so advertising messages you get each day, and instead listen to the still, small voice inside.   In fact, that’s what happy people do a lot.  They spend quiet time in nature.  They surround themselves with people, books, and ideas that nurture their dream of a joyful, caring, and deeply fulfilling life.

Like you, I was conditioned to think that certain things would make me happy.  For better or worse, I got many of those things at an early age.  I got rich.  I wrote books that got me on Oprah and other national shows on numerous occasions.  Instead of feeling a sense of accomplishment, I felt like I always had to do something bigger and better in the future.  I was not a happy camper.  There was only one way out—and that was “in.”   As I studied the research on happiness, I learned that everything I’d been taught about how to be happy was basically not true.

It turns out 167344377that the American Dream is actually a repetitive, busy, and not too unpleasant nightmare.  I soon realized that always striving for more, always being busy, and constantly competing for recognition was not a path to greater peace of mind.  As I began to see through the brainwashing of Western culture, I began to notice what really made me happy.  What really made me happy wasn’t having bouncy hair, a big house, or a Mercedes.  It ends up it was little moments of depth and joy I could find in everyday life. Nowadays, I spend more time playing with my dog, watching sunsets, hanging out with my friends, reading great books, and meditating.

So your mission, should you decide to accept it, is to find out what actually makes you uniquely happy.   Assume you’ve been in a dangerous cult and you need to get free of its programming.  Ask questions, explore new ideas, and notice when your actual experience does not match up with beliefs and behaviors that have been forced on you from the cult we’re in.  To help show you the way, there is a certain group of people who tend to be very happy a lot of the time.  This “group of people” are kids under the age of six.  What do they do differently than adults?  They play more, they plan less, and they explore the present moment fully and completely.   That’s a good place to start on the ever-evolving road to happiness.

Posted in Being Present, How to Be Happy, How to Find Happiness, Jonathan Robinson, Key to Happiness | Tagged finding, fullest, happiness, inspire, Jonathan Robinson, joy, life

I’d Love to Inspire You Today!

Jonathan Robinson, Finding Happiness Posted on February 19, 2013 by Jonathan RobinsonJanuary 16, 2023
Inspire Me Today

Inspire Me TodayI am very excited to share some great news with you. Today, I am the featured Inspirational Luminary on InspireMeToday.com, which allows me to share some of my wisdom with people around the world.

The Inspire Me Today website features “useful ideas” of a new Luminary every day, and I am honored to be chosen as one of them. On this site, you can read a brief article on a specific idea meant to inspire you and be truly useful in your life. Other Inspire Me Today picks have included Sir Richard Branson, Guy Laliberte, Seth Godin, Neale Donald Walsch, and many more.

Please visit the site on February 21st, 2013 and help me inspire the world. If my traffic and comments break records, InspireMeToday.com will share my content with millions of additional people too! I hope you’ll check it out, leave a comment and share it with your friends. To help you stay inspired, they also provide 3 minute ‘Today’s Brilliance’ pick-me-ups each day by email, by RSS feed or in an iPhone app.

From the folks at Inspire Me Today and from me, thank you in advance for your kind support. Together we really can inspire the world.

Be inspired,
Jonathan

Posted in Being Present, Inspire Me Today, Jonathan Robinson, Positive Psychology | Tagged finding, fullest, happiness, inspire, Joonathan Robinson, joy, life, love

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